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A Look at the Year that was 2009…

December 31st, 2009 by dannylong
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As I think back over the year it is hard to believe that it went so fast!  ’09 started with a mission trip to Nicaragua.  It was a trip that changed so much about me and how I view certain things.  I will never forget the morning I was sitting on the concrete steps at the coffee farm, reading my Bible, looking out over Lake Nicaragua and hearing some of the Nicaraguan girls who were with us start singing worship songs from their tents. The joy that was was so evident in these students lives was something I hadn’t seen in a long time, and something that I want all the time in my life.  There has not been a day since I got back that I have not thought about Nicaragua in one way or another.

2009 was also about getting back to the basics with Thrive.  Our budget was cut pretty good as we headed into the New Year, and I really was good with it and excited about what was ahead for us.  All this happened as I was reading a couple books, Youth Ministry 3.0, by Mark Oestreicher and It, by Craig Groeschel.  I don’t know if it was reading these books at the same time as the Nicaragua trip, but seriously I was excited about the budget cut.  If I really believe that ministry is about relationships and not program then I don’t really need a big budget.  A $5.00 footlong from Subway goes pretty far!  Throughout the year we saw God do some great things in our students lives as well as in our Thrive Staff lives.  We saw God bring about something I had wanted to do for nearly 10 years, in His timing (I wrote about this a while ago), Thrive University.  Our first one was great and our second one is in a week.  Trusting God and His timing is always better than forcing something according to your calendar.

2009 was also a great year with my family.  Ministry schedules can be crazy with a lot of nights, weekends and weeks away from home, so you need to just make time to get away with you family.  In February we surprised our kids with a trip to Disneyland.  The kids thought we were taking them to school and then we asked them if they would rather go to Disneyland (we were pretty sure they would say yes!).  So off we went! Over Spring Break we went camping at Silver Strand with some friends.  It was WINDY and COLD!!  We could only go outside one day so we left early and came home.  Right after school got out we went camping at Santee Lakes.  It was a great time of relaxing, riding bikes and reading.  Just before school started we went to Palm Springs for a couple days.  Yes it was hot!  But the room had great AC and the pool felt amazing.  InSeptember Nikki and I celebrated 14 years of marriage.  We spent a weekend at the National Youth Workers Convention.  I know it sounds romantic, but we really look forward to it each year.  It is a great weekend of reconnecting and remembering why we do what we do.  As we start 2010 we are heading up to Big Bear for a couple days to relax before school starts up again.  I love my wife.  I love my kids.  I am thankful for having them in my life and for putting up with all the craziness that ministry can bring.

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Starting Sunday January 3, 2010 at Thrive Sundays…True U!

December 29th, 2009 by dannylong
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For Parents…

December 10th, 2009 by dannylong
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Parent Newsletter

Contents

  1. Tools for Parenting Teens
  2. Learn Their Lingo
  3. Links to Learn From
  4. A Little Encouragement…And Humor

1. Tools for Parenting Teens

From http://www.realworldparents.com/starters/

Big Grace

One of the challenges of parenting for Christians is that we want our kids to be as excited about God’s unbelievable grace and forgiveness as we are—but we still want them to perform. We pray they’ll be absolutely convinced that…
Read More:
http://www.realworldparents.com/starters/article/big_grace/


Featured Resource: Boundaries with Teens

In this exciting new book, Dr. Townsend gives important keys for establishing healthy boundaries—the bedrock of good relationships, maturity, safety, and growth for teens and the adults in their lives. The book offers help in raising your teens to take responsibility for their actions, attitudes, and emotions.

http://www.realworldparents.com/store/item/boundaries_with_teens/


2. Learn Their Lingo

Brodie = A combination of the two words “brother” and “buddy”

I.M.Y = I miss you

3. Links to Learn From

Parents’ Sex Talk with Kids: Too Little, Too Late
http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1945759,00.html

NATION: Obesity in some children tied to DNA, study finds
http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/chi-tc-nw-briefs-1206-12070dec07,0,673593.story

Character says new tests show Go Go Pets are safe
http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSGEE5B61Q720091207?type=marketsNews&utm

4. A Little Encouragement…And Humor

It’s not what you leave to your children, it’s what you leave in your children

- Author Unknown

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What is Your Favorite Christmas Movie?

December 7th, 2009 by dannylong
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Amazing Song and Awesome Video…

November 5th, 2009 by dannylong
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Always Scheming…

November 4th, 2009 by dannylong
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It seems that I am always scheming and trying to figure out how to get new things that I want.  I don’t always get them, but I do spend some time trying to figure out how I could get them.  Things like new gadgets mostly.  I am a geek at heart who loves technology and always wants new things.  I know I should get some help.  In fact, I kind of got some help today!  I found this nifty flow chart that definitely helps with the decision making process.  I hope it helps you too!

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Something for Parents…

October 14th, 2009 by dannylong
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Parent Newsletter

Contents

  1. Tools for Parenting Teens
  2. Learn Their Lingo
  3. Links to Learn From
  4. A Little Encouragement…And Humor

1. Tools for Parenting Teens

From http://www.realworldparents.com/starters/

The Foolish Joy of Mocking

Many students fall into the habit of mocking as a way for covering up their own insecurity. Afraid of looking stupid, some will mock others before they can become the victim. Eventually, the habit can become a lifestyle.

Read More:
http://www.realworldparents.com/starters/article/the_foolish_joy_of_mocking/


Featured Resource: Boundaries with Teens

In this exciting new book, Dr. Townsend gives important keys for establishing healthy boundaries—the bedrock of good relationships, maturity, safety, and growth for teens and the adults in their lives. The book offers help in raising your teens to take responsibility for their actions, attitudes, and emotions.

http://www.realworldparents.com/store/item/boundaries_with_teens/


2. Learn Their Lingo

GMAS = Acronym for give me a second.

Caraoke = Singing along with music in a car, especially loudly and passionately.

4. Links to Learn From

140 Characters of Parenting Insight [YS Blog]
http://www.youthspecialties.com/blog/2009/140-characters-of-parenting-insight-2/

Teen Sex Escalation [The Source for Youth Ministry]
http://www.thesource4ym.com/youthculturewindow/article.asp?id=96

While Adolescents May Reason As Well As Adults, Their Emotional Maturity Lags…[Science Daily]
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/10/091007153745.htm

5. A Little Encouragement…And Humor

Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.
- Elizabeth Stone

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Waiting on God’s Timing…

October 5th, 2009 by dannylong
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So often in life when there is something that we want to do, we figure out ways to make it happen right now. Often to make it happen right now we force it. By forcing it the outcome isn’t always how we want it to be. Sometimes we need to wait and let whatever it is sit and wait for God’s timing. Last night I was able to be part of something I have wanted to do with our students for the past 10 years, Thrive University.  Thrive University will happen four timesThrive-univ during the school year on Sunday nights.  Each night will have two classes that students take to help them grow in their knowledge of God, faith, church and basic Christianity.  Last night was our first one, and it went awesome!  Our first class was Thrive 101 where we talked about salvation, the purpose of church and how Thrive fits into that.  The second class was taught by Pastor Gary and was an overview of the Old Testament.  Both classes went great!  We had 30 students there ranging from 7th grade to 12th grade.  The feedback I have gotten already is that everyone loved it.

Maybe you are wondering why it took so long for this class to happen.  All I can really say is that it just wasn’t the right time.  There were a variety of things that were happening that prevented it from taking place.  Not forcing it, just praying about it and waiting on God for the right time made it well worth the wait!  We need to focus on doing what God wants of us and not just trying to push what we want.  Seek God.  Pursue Him and wait on His timing.  Even if it takes a while (like 10 years!), God’s timing is always better than ours!100_2273

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Cool Video…

October 2nd, 2009 by dannylong
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Check out this great video one of my small group leaders showed me. Thanks Jordan!

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Something for Parents…

September 16th, 2009 by dannylong
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Parent Newsletter

Contents

  1. Tools for Parenting Teens
  2. Learn Their Lingo
  3. Movie Reviews
  4. Links to Learn From
  5. A Little Encouragement…And Humor

1. Tools for Parenting Teens

From http://www.realworldparents.com/starters/

When God Waits

One of the most difficult questions for Christian parents to answer is, “Why did God let this happen?” At issue may be the death of a loved one or a pet or any devastating loss deeply felt. If God is…
Read More:
http://www.realworldparents.com/starters/article/when_god_waits/


Featured Resource: Sacred Parenting

Explore the spiritual dynamics of parenting, and why caring for children is such an effective discipline in shaping our souls and forming the character of Christ within us.

Save 20% off the retail price of “Sacred Parenting” when you use Coupon Code YPN391 and order by 9/30/09

http://www.realworldparents.com/store/item/sacred_parenting/


2. Learn Their Lingo

Frenemy = An enemy disguised as a friend.

Kind of a big deal = A term for a person who is facetiously joking about how important/cool/awesome they are.

3. Movie Reviews for Parents

9

This dark, post-apocalyptic tale began as an 11-minute short film by a UCLA animation student. The wildly original story is built on a very spiritual…

Read Review:
http://www.realworldparents.com/movies/review/nine/

All About Steve

In spite of a likable cast, very few recent films have annoyed secular critics as much as “All About Steve.” We can’t disagree. But if…

Read Review:
http://www.realworldparents.com/movies/review/all_about_steve/

4. Links to Learn From

Smacking Makes Children Naughtier [Telegraph U.K.]
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/6188692/Smacking-makes-children-naughtier-research.html

Reading and Writing Must Be a Priority [SmartBrief.com]
http://www.smartbrief.com/news/ascd/storyDetails.jsp?issueid=1EFBA3A0-48F5-4FAF-9FA2-7968350229B3&copyid=6DE78BF4-3E0C-44B9-AC50-91CE01674BBD

Study Shows Teenage Girls Attracted to Deep Voices [Physorg.com]
http://www.physorg.com/news172304097.html

5. A Little Encouragement…And Humor

Where there is love, there is pain.
- Spanish Proverb

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